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Quickie sex is fun, intense, and makes you feel super desirable\u2014and you need to have more of it. <\/p>\n

Despite what Hollywood would have you believe, great sex<\/a> doesn\u2019t require mood lighting, a carefully curated playlist, or even extensive foreplay. In fact, if you wait for all those things to fall into place, you might never get it on at all.<\/p>\n

\u201cI often ask my clients, do you want to have some sex or do you want to have no sex?\u201d says Holly Richmond, PhD, a sex therapist in Southern California. \u201cSome people think the scene has to be set perfectly. They need to be showered<\/a>, the sheets need to be clean, and the kids have to be with a babysitter.\u201d <\/p>\n

WATCH THE VIDEO: 7 Simple Ways to Boost Your Sex Drive <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

But the stars don't have to align in order for you and your partner to have mind-blowing sex. In fact, an unplanned, I-have-to-have-you-now quickie can be even hotter than a drawn-out session between the sheets. \u201cQuickies are fantastic because they are spontaneous and build excitement, two things people in long-term relationships<\/a> crave,\u201d says Richmond. Intrigued? Let us make the case for why you need to add more quickies to your life.<\/p>\n

Quickies are perfect for busy partners<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Since most of us feel pressed for time all the time, a quickie is one of the best ways to make sure you still get between the sheets\u2014even if only for a few minutes. Richmond believes we're all bound to benefit, especially parents of young children. \u201cThe reality of having a great sex life filled with sensual lovemaking sessions when you have a child under the age of four in the house is really hard to pull off,\u201d she says. But stealing away five or 10 minutes during nap time? Totally doable.<\/p>\n

Spontaneous sex is an energy booster<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You know how something unexpected and surprising can really give you a jolt? It's the same with sex: An unscheduled, lightning-fast hookup can be super energizing. You\u2019ll get back to your day-to-day routine with a smile on your face while thinking, "Wow, I\u2019ve already had this fantastic moment\u2014and it literally might\u2019ve just been a moment\u2014with my partner,\u201d says Richmond.<\/p>\n

RELATED: Real Women Share Their Go-To Masturbation Techniques<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n

You'll both feel wanted and desired<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Even when you're still in love with and attracted to your partner, the routine of work and home life can prevent you from feeling that crazy-hot desire that drew you to each other in the first place. It's natural for couples in long-term relationships to see those fireworks fade, but quickies can bring them back. Knowing that your spouse suddenly needs you and feels desire for you will remind you of the early days of your relationship, when you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other.<\/p>\n

How to get in the quickie habit <\/strong><\/h3>\n

The next time you and your SO settle into bed with your tablets\u2014or you have 10 minutes before friends are coming over for game night, or as you stumble into the shower in the a.m. to get ready for the workday\u2014suggest fooling around instead, advises Richmond. \u201cIt can be as simple as saying, \u2018Hey, wanna have a quickie?\u2019 or \u2018How about we have five minutes of connection right now?\u2019\u201d <\/p>\n

To get our best sexual health tips delivered to you inbox, sign up for the Healthy Living newsletter<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, this isn't to say that quickies should replace your candlelit late-night sex sessions, especially since it takes most women about 20 minutes<\/a> to reach orgasm when they\u2019re having sex with their partner, says Richmond. The reality of the quickie, then, is that most women probably won\u2019t <\/em>experience an orgasm every time. But that\u2019s also not alwaysthe point, says Richmond. <\/p>\n

\u201cDo you want connection or do you want an orgasm?\u201d asks Richmond. \u201cUsually people want both, but they can get an orgasm by themselves. It\u2019s that connection, novelty, and sense of fun and adventure that they crave, and that\u2019s what a quickie can really deliver.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Quickie sex is fun, intense, and makes you feel super desirable\u2014and you need to have more of it. <\/p>\n

Despite what Hollywood would have you believe, great sex doesn\u2019t require mood lighting, a carefully curated playlist, or even extensive foreplay. In fact, if you wait for all those things to fall into place, you might never get it on at all.<\/p>\n

\u201cI often ask my clients, do you want to have some sex or do you want to have no sex?\u201d says Holly Richmond, PhD, a sex therapist in Southern California. \u201cSome people think the scene has to be set perfectly. They need to be showered, the sheets need to be clean, and the kids have to be with a babysitter.\u201d <\/p>\n

WATCH THE VIDEO: 7 Simple Ways to Boost Your Sex Drive <\/p>\n

But the stars don't have to align in order for you and your partner to have mind-blowing sex. In fact, an unplanned, I-have-to-have-you-now quickie can be even hotter than a drawn-out session between the sheets. \u201cQuickies are fantastic because they are spontaneous and build excitement, two things people in long-term relationships crave,\u201d says Richmond. Intrigued? Let us make the case for why you need to add more quickies to your life.<\/p>\n

Quickies are perfect for busy partners
\nSince most of us feel pressed for time all the time, a quickie is one of the best ways to make sure you still get between the sheets\u2014even if only for a few minutes. Richmond believes we're all bound to benefit, especially parents of young children. \u201cThe reality of having a great sex life filled with sensual lovemaking sessions when you have a child under the age of four in the house is really hard to pull off,\u201d she says. But stealing away five or 10 minutes during nap time? Totally doable.<\/p>\n

Spontaneous sex is an energy booster
\nYou know how something unexpected and surprising can really give you a jolt? It's the same with sex: An unscheduled, lightning-fast hookup can be super energizing. You\u2019ll get back to your day-to-day routine with a smile on your face while thinking, “Wow, I\u2019ve already had this fantastic moment\u2014and it literally might\u2019ve just been a moment\u2014with my partner,\u201d says Richmond.<\/p>\n

RELATED: Real Women Share Their Go-To Masturbation Techniques <\/p>\n

You'll both feel wanted and desired
\nEven when you're still in love with and attracted to your partner, the routine of work and home life can prevent you from feeling that crazy-hot desire that drew you to each other in the first place. It's natural for couples in long-term relationships to see those fireworks fade, but quickies can bring them back. Knowing that your spouse suddenly needs you and feels desire for you will remind you of the early days of your relationship, when you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other.<\/p>\n

How to get in the quickie habit
\nThe next time you and your SO settle into bed with your tablets\u2014or you have 10 minutes before friends are coming over for game night, or as you stumble into the shower in the a.m. to get ready for the workday\u2014suggest fooling around instead, advises Richmond. \u201cIt can be as simple as saying, \u2018Hey, wanna have a quickie?\u2019 or \u2018How about we have five minutes of connection right now?\u2019\u201d <\/p>\n

To get our best sexual health tips delivered to you inbox, sign up for the Healthy Living newsletter<\/p>\n

Of course, this isn't to say that quickies should replace your candlelit late-night sex sessions, especially since it takes most women about 20 minutes to reach orgasm when they\u2019re having sex with their partner, says Richmond. The reality of the quickie, then, is that most women probably won\u2019t experience an orgasm every time. But that\u2019s also not alwaysthe point, says Richmond. <\/p>\n

\u201cDo you want connection or do you want an orgasm?\u201d asks Richmond. \u201cUsually people want both, but they can get an orgasm by themselves. It\u2019s that connection, novelty, and sense of fun and adventure that they crave, and that\u2019s what a quickie can really deliver.\u201d<\/p>\n

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You\u2019ll get back to your day-to-day routine with a smile on your face while thinking, "Wow, I\u2019ve already had this fantastic moment\u2014and it literally might\u2019ve just been a moment\u2014with my partner,\u201d says Richmond. RELATED: Real Women Share Their Go-To Masturbation Techniques You'll both feel wanted and desired Even when you're still in love with and attracted to your partner, the routine of work and home life can prevent you from feeling that crazy-hot desire that drew you to each other in the first place. It's natural for couples in long-term relationships to see those fireworks fade, but quickies can bring them back. Knowing that your spouse suddenly needs you and feels desire for you will remind you of the early days of your relationship, when you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other. 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Intrigued? Let us make the case for why you need to add more quickies to your life. Quickies are perfect for busy partners Since most of us feel pressed for time all the time, a quickie is one of the best ways to make sure you still get between the sheets\u2014even if only for a few minutes. Richmond believes we're all bound to benefit, especially parents of young children. \u201cThe reality of having a great sex life filled with sensual lovemaking sessions when you have a child under the age of four in the house is really hard to pull off,\u201d she says. But stealing away five or 10 minutes during nap time? Totally doable. Spontaneous sex is an energy booster You know how something unexpected and surprising can really give you a jolt? It's the same with sex: An unscheduled, lightning-fast hookup can be super energizing. You\u2019ll get back to your day-to-day routine with a smile on your face while thinking, \\\"Wow, I\u2019ve already had this fantastic moment\u2014and it literally might\u2019ve just been a moment\u2014with my partner,\u201d says Richmond. RELATED: Real Women Share Their Go-To Masturbation Techniques You'll both feel wanted and desired Even when you're still in love with and attracted to your partner, the routine of work and home life can prevent you from feeling that crazy-hot desire that drew you to each other in the first place. It's natural for couples in long-term relationships to see those fireworks fade, but quickies can bring them back. Knowing that your spouse suddenly needs you and feels desire for you will remind you of the early days of your relationship, when you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other. 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You\u2019ll get back to your day-to-day routine with a smile on your face while thinking, \"Wow, I\u2019ve already had this fantastic moment\u2014and it literally might\u2019ve just been a moment\u2014with my partner,\u201d says Richmond. RELATED: Real Women Share Their Go-To Masturbation Techniques You'll both feel wanted and desired Even when you're still in love with and attracted to your partner, the routine of work and home life can prevent you from feeling that crazy-hot desire that drew you to each other in the first place. It's natural for couples in long-term relationships to see those fireworks fade, but quickies can bring them back. Knowing that your spouse suddenly needs you and feels desire for you will remind you of the early days of your relationship, when you probably couldn't keep your hands off each other. 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